Intelligent matchmaking method and system

Through the intelligent matchmaker system, it uses artificial intelligence language big model technology to collect and evaluate marriage and dating information, and hosts online conversations through digital matchmakers, which solves the problem of communication difficulties in strangers in the early stages of marriage and dating, and improves the success rate of blind dates.

CN119760054APending Publication Date: 2025-04-04蒋芳
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CN202311276544.6
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CN · China
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Applications(China)
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Filing Date
2023-10-03
Publication Date
2025-04-04

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Technical Problem

In the early stages of marriage and dating, strangers prevent psychological and insufficient communication, resulting in a low success rate of blind dates, and both parties need to invest a lot of ineffective time and energy.

Method used

Design an intelligent matchmaker system, using artificial intelligence language big model technology, collect basic information related to users' marriage, dating and dating through conversations, and conduct authenticity assessment. After the user reaches the initial intention to make friends, the system hosts a tripartite online conversation through a digital matchmaker to guide the communication between the two parties, and evaluates the effectiveness of the communication process and the security of the content.

Benefits of technology

It effectively solves the problem of preventing psychological and insufficient communication in the early stages of marriage and dating of strangers, reduces the ineffective time and energy of marriage and dating personnel on blind dates, and improves the success rate of marriage and dating through blind dates.

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Abstract

The present invention discloses an intelligent matchmaker method and system, including a cloud application and a mobile application, wherein the cloud application includes a digital matchmaker module. The digital matchmaker collects basic information related to marriage and dating of users in a dialogue communication mode, and users whose basic information passes the integrity and authenticity evaluation become qualified dating users, and can receive a list of candidate dating objects recommended by the digital matchmaker. Users can select objects with preliminary dating intentions from the list, and initiate a three-party online conversation exchange participated by the digital matchmaker. The conversation exchange is convened, hosted and guided by the digital matchmaker, and an evaluation report on the effectiveness of the communication process and the security of the communication content is provided, which effectively solves the problem of insufficient communication caused by unfamiliarity and defensive psychology between the two dating parties in the early stage, and overall improves the success rate of the two dating parties entering into marriage in the blind date mode.
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[0001] The present invention relates to the application of artificial intelligence technology, in particular to intelligent language technology and language large model dialogue application, and the business scope involved in the application is mainly online marriage and dating services. Background Art

[0004] Dating, including online and offline dating, is one of the main ways for unmarried men and women to make friends. It is the preferred way for older unmarried men and women to make friends. One of its notable features is that the two parties are mostly strangers to each other, and the impression of one party on the other party is mostly derived from the introducer or online information. Two people who are not familiar with each other or even strangers to each other meet for a blind date, exchange phone numbers, and add each other on WeChat. In the subsequent communication, they need to face the problems of mutual vigilance and insufficient communication due to unfamiliarity.

[0005] If there is such a person, he (she) has a better understanding of the basic information related to marriage and dating of both parties, and can gain the basic trust of both parties, in the early stage of marriage and love communication between two strangers, he (she) can guide both parties to have sufficient communication and exchange on topics related to marriage and dating, or topics of common concern or interest to both parties. At the same time, this person will also evaluate the effectiveness of the conversation process and the security of the communication content, and inform both parties of the evaluation results. This will effectively solve the problems encountered by strangers in the early stage of marriage and love, and increase the success rate of stranger blind dates.

[0006] Obviously, in the real world, such a person does not exist. First, it is a problem of energy. This person needs to know too much basic information related to dating and marriage. The communication between the two parties in dating and marriage does not end in one go. There may be multiple rounds of communication. Secondly, it is a problem of human ability. Compared with the number of people in the stranger dating method, the number of people who can host and guide the communication between any two people among so many strangers is extremely limited. Thirdly, it is a problem of trust. The communication between the two parties in dating and marriage may not want a real person to know.

[0007] After the release of large language models represented by ChatGPT, there will be many applications based on the capabilities of large language models. If we design an intelligent matchmaker system based on large model technology, we can collect basic information about users' marriage and dating through conversational communication, and after two strangers reach a preliminary intention to make friends, host and guide the two parties to communicate online, and evaluate the effectiveness of the communication process and the security of the communication content. The evaluation results provide a reference for the two parties to decide whether to continue communicating or enter offline communication, effectively solving the problems existing in the initial communication between strangers, reducing the ineffective time and energy invested by marriage and dating personnel in blind dates, and overall improving the success rate of marriage and dating personnel in entering into marriage through blind dates. Summary of the invention

[0008] The problem to be solved by the present invention is:

[0009] Based on the artificial intelligence language big model technology, an intelligent matchmaker system is designed. First, through conversational communication, the basic information related to marriage and dating of users who have passed the real-name authentication is collected, and the authenticity of the collected basic information related to marriage and dating is evaluated. Users who pass the evaluation are qualified dating users. Before two qualified dating users reach an offline face-to-face communication, the three-party online conversation communication method consisting of the digital matchmaker and the qualified dating parties is used to host and guide the communication between the two dating parties, accelerate the mutual understanding between the two parties, and evaluate the effectiveness of the communication process and the security of the communication content. The evaluation results are used as a reference for the dating parties to decide whether to continue the communication or enter the offline communication, effectively solving the problems existing in the initial communication between strangers, reducing the ineffective time and energy invested by dating personnel in blind dates, and overall improving the success rate of dating personnel entering marriage through blind dates.

[0010] In order to solve the above problems, the scheme adopted by the present invention is as follows:

[0011] According to an intelligent matchmaking method of the present invention, the method involves a cloud application and a mobile application, the mobile application is installed on the mobile phone of the dating personnel and connected to the cloud application, the intelligent cloud application is deployed in the cloud and includes a digital matchmaking module, and the method includes the following steps:

[0012] Dating and marriage partners complete user registration and real-name authentication through the mobile application, and user information is stored in the cloud application.

[0013] Furthermore, the dating users who have completed the real-name authentication can submit their basic information related to dating through the mobile phone application and the digital matchmaker through text dialogue; as an optimization solution, the dating users who have completed the real-name authentication can choose to communicate with the digital matchmaker through voice and video dialogue to submit their basic information related to dating. The basic information related to dating refers to the information of the other party that one party needs to know or focus on during the dating process, mainly including personal situation (age, height, weight and health status), dating history or marriage history, parents and views on marriage and family, occupation and work unit, personal income and property, personal interests and hobbies, and expected requirements for the basic information related to dating of the candidate dating object.

[0014] Furthermore, the digital matchmaker evaluates the integrity and authenticity of the collected basic information related to dating and marriage. After passing the evaluation, the dating and marriage user is recorded in the qualified dating list database as a qualified dating user. The integrity refers to the completion of the basic information related to dating and marriage collected through the conversation, that is, the proportion of the number of information that has been collected to all the information that should be collected; the authenticity refers to the credibility of the collected information related to dating and marriage. The authenticity evaluation method is still the communication dialogue method. For the basic information related to dating and marriage collected during the conversation, additional questions are asked to the user to answer, and the additional information required for evaluating the authenticity of the basic information related to dating and marriage is collected, and the authenticity evaluation model is used for evaluation.

[0015] Furthermore, the digital matchmaker automatically matches the qualified dating user from the qualified dating list database based on the collected basic information related to love and marriage, recommends candidate dating objects, and sends the list of candidate dating objects to the user's mobile phone application; as an optimization solution, the qualified dating user can submit a matching application to the digital matchmaker, requesting the digital matchmaker to recommend a new list of candidate dating objects.

[0016] Furthermore, after the qualified dating user receives the list of candidate dating partners recommended by the digital matchmaker in the mobile application, he can view the basic information related to marriage and dating of the people on the candidate dating partner list. If he finds a dating partner with whom he has preliminary communication intention from the list, he can submit an application for a three-party conversation consisting of "himself, the digital matchmaker and the intended dating partner" to the digital matchmaker. After the digital matchmaker reviews and approves the application, the three-party conversation group will be created. The digital matchmaker is a virtual character in the three-party conversation group, and the three-party conversation can only be conducted online.

[0017] Furthermore, in the three-party conversation group, the digital matchmaker is a virtual host who is responsible for convening conversations between the two parties, proposing topics for communication, and guiding the two parties to actively communicate. The main source of communication topics is the basic information related to marriage and dating between the two parties and the content involved in the conversation between the two parties; as an optimization solution, the digital matchmaker will evaluate the effectiveness of the conversation process between the two parties, and the evaluation output is a summary of the communication effect for the two parties to decide whether to continue the communication; as an optimization solution, the digital matchmaker will also conduct a security assessment on the content of the communication conversation between the two parties at the same time, and is responsible for supervising and ensuring the security of the content of the online communication conversation between the two parties.

[0018] Furthermore, after the three-party conversation continues for a period of time, the digital matchmaker determines that the two parties can conduct offline blind date communication based on the effectiveness evaluation results of the chat process and the security evaluation results of the communication conversation content, and then notifies the two parties in the marriage and dating communication through the mobile phone application that they can exchange communication methods and conduct offline face-to-face blind date communication.

[0019] Furthermore, during the three-party conversation, the dating parties can terminate the three-party conversation at any time and close the three-party conversation group. If the digital matchmaker confirms that the two dating parties have no intention or cannot communicate, or there are unsafe factors based on the effectiveness evaluation results of the chat process and the security evaluation results of the communication conversation content, the three-party conversation can also be terminated and the three-party conversation group can be closed.

[0020] The technical effects of the present invention are as follows:

[0021] a) In the intelligent matchmaker system, there is a virtual digital matchmaker who collects basic information related to dating and marriage from users who have passed real-name authentication through conversational communication. She also collects additional information through conversational communication to evaluate the authenticity of the information related to dating and marriage. Only qualified users who have collected complete basic information related to dating and marriage and passed the authenticity assessment are eligible to obtain a list of candidate dating partners.

[0022] b) When the user finds a dating partner with whom he or she has initial interest from the list of candidate dating partners, the user can conduct a three-party online conversation under the hosting and guidance of a digital matchmaker. Although the virtual digital matchmaker is not a real person, she knows the basic information of both parties to the conversation and acts as the convener, host and guide of the online conversation between the two parties. The two originally strangers are communicating as if they were guided by a common acquaintance, which can effectively solve the problems of strangers having a defensive mentality in the early stages of communication, easy awkwardness and insufficient communication.

[0023] c) Through effective communication, both parties can quickly get to know each other. Coupled with the effectiveness of the three-party conversation and the security assessment report of the communication content provided by the digital matchmaker, both parties can quickly decide whether it is necessary to continue the relationship, reducing the ineffective time and energy invested by dating people in blind dates, and overall improving the success rate of dating people entering into marriage through blind dates. BRIEF DESCRIPTION OF THE DRAWINGS

[0024] Attached Figure 1 It is a diagram of cloud application architecture.

[0025] Attached Figure 2 This is a schematic diagram of the mobile application architecture.

[0026] Attached Figure 3 It is a schematic diagram of the main working process of the system. DETAILED DESCRIPTION

[0027] Below, combined with the attached Figure 1 , Attachment Figure 2 , Attachment Figure 3 The implementation of the present invention is described in further detail.

[0028] According to an intelligent matchmaker method of the present invention, the method includes an intelligent matchmaker cloud application and a mobile phone application. The mobile phone application is installed on the mobile phone of the dating personnel and connected to the intelligent matchmaker cloud application. The intelligent matchmaker cloud application is deployed in the cloud and includes a virtual digital matchmaker module.

[0029] Design and implementation of the cloud application.

[0030] As attached Figure 1 As shown, the cloud application can be logically divided into three parts: 100 mobile application service interface, 111 virtual digital matchmaker, and 112 user management. 100 mobile application service interface is a communication service call interface provided by the cloud application for the mobile application. Engineers in this field know that there are many ways to implement this part, typically based on the call service provided by http or https. Engineers in this field know that 112 user management is also a typical WEB application service, and its main functions include user registration, login, real-name user authentication, etc.

[0031] Therefore, the specific implementation of the cloud application is mainly the design and implementation of the 111 virtual digital matchmaker, as shown in the attached Figure 1 As shown, the virtual digital matchmaker is based on the language big model technology, and generally uses a third-party language big model service, such as the language big model service Wenxin Qianfan (attached) provided by Baidu Wenxin. Figure 1: 121 third-party language large model service); engineers in this field understand that they can use open source large models for their own training, but they need to comply with the requirements of the national competent authorities for the supervision of artificial intelligence; 111 The main functions of the virtual digital matchmaker include: C1. Collecting basic information related to marriage and dating of real-name authenticated users, C2. Automatic matching and recommendation of marriage and dating, C3. Three-party conversation management.

[0032] C1. Design and implementation of collecting basic information related to dating and dating of real-name authenticated users:

[0033] The virtual digital matchmaker uses a conversational communication method to collect basic information related to marriage and dating from users, which are all information that both parties of the dating party focus on. First, the basic information related to marriage and dating is classified, and questions to be asked to users according to the need to collect information are set according to the category. In the present invention, the basic information related to marriage and dating is divided into: personal information (age, height, weight, health status), personal marriage history or love history, parents and views on marriage and family, professional status (including education, work unit, occupation and position), personal income and property, personal interests and hobbies, etc., expected conditions for candidate dating objects, etc. The expected conditions here are limited to the basic information related to marriage and dating, such as: requirements for the age, height, occupation, income and other aspects of the candidate dating object.

[0034] For basic information related to marriage and dating that needs to be evaluated for authenticity, such as personal marriage or dating history, parents and views on marriage and family, occupation, income and property, personal interests and hobbies, etc., an additional information collection conversation model and an authenticity evaluation model will be established for each category of information. The conversation model is used to collect additional information required to evaluate the authenticity of this category of information, and the evaluation model is used to evaluate the authenticity of this category of information. The conversation model is based on publicly released large model services, such as Baidu Wenxin large model service, and is obtained through small sample tuning and training. Based on the conversation model, when receiving the reply of the marriage and dating user to the basic information collection question, the additional information collection conversation model will be used to ask the user additional questions, and multiple conversations will be conducted on the said reply content, and the additional information required for the authenticity evaluation is collected through the conversation. The authenticity evaluation model is based on publicly released large model services, such as Baidu Wenxin large model service, and is obtained through small sample tuning and training, and is supplemented by structured information collection as an auxiliary judgment. Let's take a simple example to illustrate the conversation model and evaluation model used in authenticity assessment: if a dating user replies that his (her) occupation is accountant in the occupation status, the conversation model will ask some additional questions in accounting-related fields and collect additional information. The evaluation model will evaluate the possibility of him (her) being an accountant, his (her) accounting level, and whether it matches his (her) working age and professional income based on the answers.

[0035] After the user's basic information related to marriage and dating is collected and passes the integrity and authenticity assessment, the user will be recorded in the qualified marriage and dating list database as a qualified dating user. The integrity assessment refers to the information that needs to be collected and the collection completion status, that is, the ratio of the number of collected information to the total number of information that should be collected.

[0036] Basic information related to dating and marriage is divided into structured data and unstructured data and stored separately. Unstructured data directly uses the text content of dating and marriage users' replies to questions, and the structured information comes from the text content of the user replies. The structured information is extracted from the text content of the replies using the big model service. The structured information is stored in the relational database. In addition to being used for dating and marriage users to automatically match and recommend candidate dating partners, it is also used as an auxiliary reference for the authenticity assessment of basic information related to dating and marriage.

[0037] The input and output of the virtual digital matchmaker's communication with the user is text information. Engineers in this field understand that when using voice or audio conversations to collect basic information related to user marriage and love, the main functions can be implemented in the mobile application, namely: recognizing the user's voice as text, sending it to the virtual digital matchmaker, and synthesizing the text received from the virtual digital matchmaker into voice and playing it to the user.

[0038] C2. Design and implementation of automatic matching and recommendation for dating and marriage:

[0039] The virtual digital matchmaker automatically matches and recommends a list of candidate dating objects for the qualified dating users, mainly using the structured information collected from the basic information related to marriage and dating of the users for matching. Users can also actively initiate matching applications, and the list of candidate dating objects recommended by the matching will be automatically pushed to the user's mobile phone application, and the user can also view the list of candidate dating objects recommended by the matching through the mobile phone application. The basic business rule is that users participating in automatic matching can only come from the qualified dating list database.

[0040] C3. Design and implementation of three-party conversation management:

[0041] The three-party online conversation communication refers to the conversation communication conducted by the digital matchmaker, the conversation initiator user and its candidate communication partner. The conversation is conducted in the form of online communication. The digital matchmaker is a virtual role in the conversation, responsible for convening, hosting, guiding and evaluating the conversation. The main functions include: creating a three-party conversation communication group, preparing conversation communication topics, convening three-party conversation communication, hosting and guiding three-party conversation communication, evaluating the effectiveness of the three-party conversation process, evaluating the security of the three-party conversation content, and terminating the three-party conversation communication.

[0042] The three-party conversation communication group is created by: the conversation initiating user initiates a three-party conversation application. After review and approval, an online conversation communication group consisting of the conversation initiating user, the candidate communication partner of the conversation initiating user, and the digital matchmaker is created. The review principle is based on general ethical standards, for example: the number of three-party conversations currently being conducted by the conversation initiating user cannot exceed the prescribed number.

[0043] Preparation of the topic of the conversation: Although the digital matchmaker is a virtual character in the three-party conversation, as the host, she needs to prepare topics for the two parties to communicate. The topic may be related to one party or may be of interest to both parties. The host topic is generated using a three-party conversation topic generation model. The topic generation model is based on a publicly released large model service, such as Baidu Wenxin large model service, and is obtained through small sample tuning training. When using the topic generation model, the input is the basic information of the two parties in the dating process and the chat content in the three-party chat. After preparation, the communication topic is not static, but needs to be updated during the communication process using the content of the communication between the two parties. In the three-party conversation, the two parties can also propose topics for communication by themselves, but there are some topics directly related to marriage, such as housework, children, etc., which are topics that both parties must communicate.

[0044] The three-party conversation call: The three-party online conversation usually lasts for several days, so the online conversation chat usually lasts for multiple rounds. The initiation of each round requires a digital matchmaker who serves as the chat host. After confirming that the two friends have time and interest through private chat, the two friends are called together for communication. This function is relatively easy to implement. Using simple semantic understanding or using publicly released large model services for semantic understanding, it is possible to confirm whether the two parties have time and interest in chatting from their replies during the private chat. As an optimization solution, the two friends can privately chat with the digital matchmaker and request the digital matchmaker to call a conversation. Engineers in this field understand that using a public large model to perform small sample optimization to obtain a large model used for calling a three-party conversation exchange and calling a conversation is also a technical solution.

[0045] The three-party conversation is hosted and guided: in each round of conversation, the first person to speak is the digital matchmaker, who proposes the first communication topic and selects a spokesperson from both parties. When one party finishes speaking, if the other party does not respond, she will prompt the other party to speak or propose the next communication topic. The communication topic comes from the communication question list output by the conversation topic preparation function. When the agreed time for this round of communication is up, or the agreed topics for this round of communication have been completed, or the two parties cannot continue due to something, the communication round ends.

[0046] The effectiveness evaluation of the three-party communication process refers to the evaluation of whether the communication process between the two parties is effective. The main contents of the evaluation report are: whether all the topics that should be discussed have been raised, the communication attitudes of the two parties on each topic, and the consistency of the views of the two parties on each topic. The evaluation is mainly based on the three-party conversation communication process effectiveness evaluation model. The evaluation model is based on publicly released large model services, such as Baidu Wenxin large model service, and is obtained through small sample tuning and training. For the evaluation of communication attitude, other logics need to be supplemented, such as the number of non-response to call-up conversations, the number of non-response to communication topics, the number of missed appointments, etc.

[0047] The security assessment of the three-party conversation content: What one party of a dating relationship says to the other party through the mobile application needs to be reviewed by the digital matchmaker before it is sent to the other party's mobile application. At the same time, the digital matchmaker will also conduct a security assessment on the content of each round of conversation between the two dating parties. There are two assessment methods. One is to use the unsafe conversation library method, that is, enumerate common unsafe conversations, establish an unsafe conversation vector database, use the big model service to convert the conversation content into a vector, and perform similar semantic searches in the unsafe conversation library; the other is to use the conversation security assessment model method. The conversation security assessment model is based on a publicly released big model service, such as Baidu Wenxin Big Model Service, and is obtained through small sample tuning and training. The output content of the conversation communication security assessment is a security level classification, such as risk level 1 to 5, and the security risk level increases in sequence.

[0048] Termination of the three-party conversation: Either party can close the three-party conversation group and terminate the three-party conversation. If after multiple calls and guides, the evaluation results of the chat process between the two parties are not very positive, the digital matchmaker, as the host, will suggest to both parties to terminate the three-party conversation. As long as one party is willing to terminate, or both parties do not respond to the suggestion, the three-party conversation group will be closed. When an unsafe signal appears in the security evaluation of the three-party conversation content, the digital matchmaker will also close the three-party conversation group and terminate the three-party conversation.

[0049] Design and implementation of the mobile application:

[0050] As attached Figure 2 As shown, the mobile application can be logically divided into five parts: 200 cloud application service call, 210 user management, 211 data collection conversation communication, 212 friend management, and 213 three-party online conversation communication. 200 cloud application service call is to call the background service interface or receive background message push according to the service agreement of the cloud application. 210 user management mainly includes user registration, login and real-name user authentication. Engineers in this field understand that these two parts are common functions of current mobile applications.

[0051] 211 Data collection and conversational communication: The main function is for users to interact with the digital matchmaker in the form of conversational communication to complete the collection of basic information related to marriage and dating. Engineers in this field understand that interacting in text form is a common function, but when the user chooses to interact in audio or video form, the audio in the audio and video needs to be recognized as text and sent to the cloud application, and the text sent by the cloud application must be played in conjunction with the voice. Other necessary functions are that users can see the results of the integrity assessment of the collection of basic information related to marriage and dating.

[0052] 212 Friendship Management: The main functions include viewing the list of candidate friends recommended by the digital matchmaker, viewing the basic information related to marriage and dating of a person on the list, actively requesting automatic matching again, and recommending a new batch of candidate friends. When viewing the basic information related to marriage and dating of a friend, if there is a preliminary intention to date, an application for a three-party online conversation can be initiated.

[0053] 213 Three-party online conversation communication: The main functions include displaying the list of ongoing three-party conversation communication groups, conducting three-party conversation communication chats, terminating a three-party conversation with a certain communication partner, privately chatting with a digital matchmaker, responding to or requesting a new round of conversation chat calls from the smart matchmaker, viewing the effectiveness evaluation results of the three-party conversation communication process, viewing the security evaluation results of the three-party conversation communication content, and viewing whether the person having the communication partner has obtained the qualifications for offline face-to-face conversation communication.

[0054] Description of the main working process of the system: Please see the attached Figure 3 Here is an additional explanation from the perspective of dating users to understand how the intelligent matchmaking system works:

[0055] P1. Complete registration, login, and real-name authentication.

[0056] P2. Communicate with the Digital Matchmaker to complete the collection of basic information related to marriage and dating, and check whether the collection is complete. If not, continue to communicate with the Digital Matchmaker until the collection is complete and you become a qualified dating user.

[0057] P3. Check the list of candidate dating partners received, check the basic information of the candidate dating partners related to dating and marriage, and if you have preliminary intention to date a candidate, initiate a three-party conversation application to the digital matchmaker.

[0058] P4. Wait for the Digital Matchmaker to call for a three-party conversation. When the three-party conversation begins, actively communicate and speak according to the Digital Matchmaker's guidance. You can also communicate and speak on topics that you are concerned about.

[0059] P5. Check the effectiveness evaluation results of the communication process with a candidate friend and decide whether to continue the communication. If it is inappropriate or there is a security risk, terminate the three-party conversation in time.

[0060] P6. If you meet a suitable candidate for dating, and the other party is willing to actively communicate, you can often apply to the digital matchmaker to convene and host three-party conversations. After obtaining the qualifications for offline face-to-face conversations, you can exchange communication methods and arrange offline blind dates. At this time, the two parties in the dating are no longer strangers.

Claims

1. An intelligent matchmaking method, characterized in that: The method includes a cloud application and a mobile application. The mobile application is installed on the mobile phone of the dating personnel and connected to the cloud application. The cloud application is deployed in the cloud and includes a digital matchmaker module. The method includes the following steps: S1: The dating person completes user registration and real-name authentication through the mobile application, and the user information is stored in the cloud application; S2: Dating and marriage users who have completed real-name authentication can use the mobile application to communicate with the digital matchmaker through text conversations and submit their basic information related to dating and marriage. As an optimization solution, dating and marriage users who have completed real-name authentication can choose to communicate with the digital matchmaker through voice or video conversations and submit their basic information related to dating and marriage. The basic information related to dating and marriage refers to the information of the other party that one party needs to know or focus on during the dating process, mainly including personal situation (age, height, weight and health status), dating history or marriage history, parents and views on marriage and family, occupation and work unit, personal income and property, personal interests and hobbies, and expected requirements for basic information related to dating and marriage of candidate dating objects; S3: The digital matchmaker evaluates the integrity and authenticity of the collected basic information related to dating and marriage. If the evaluation is passed, the dating and marriage user is recorded in the qualified dating list database as a qualified dating user. The integrity refers to the completion of the basic information related to dating and marriage collected through the conversation, and the authenticity refers to the credibility of the collected information related to dating and marriage. The authenticity evaluation method is still the communication dialogue method. For the basic information related to dating and marriage collected during the conversation, additional questions are asked to the user to answer, and the additional information required for evaluating the authenticity of the basic information related to dating and marriage is collected, and the authenticity evaluation model is used for evaluation; S4: The digital matchmaker automatically matches the qualified dating user from the qualified dating list database according to the collected basic information related to love and marriage, recommends candidate dating objects, and sends the candidate dating object list to the user's mobile phone application; as an optimization solution, the qualified dating user can submit a matching application to the digital matchmaker, requesting the digital matchmaker to recommend a new batch of candidate dating object lists; S5: After the qualified dating user receives the list of candidate dating objects recommended by the digital matchmaker in the mobile application, he can view the basic information related to marriage and dating of the people in the candidate dating object list. If he finds a dating object with preliminary communication intention from the list, he can submit a three-party conversation communication application consisting of "himself, the digital matchmaker and the intended dating object" to the digital matchmaker. After the digital matchmaker reviews and approves it, the three-party conversation communication group is created. The digital matchmaker is a virtual character in the three-party conversation communication group, and the three-party conversation communication can only be conducted online; S6: In the three-party conversation group, the digital matchmaker is a virtual host who is responsible for convening conversations between the two parties, proposing topics for discussion, and guiding the two parties to actively communicate. The main source of discussion topics is the basic information related to marriage and dating between the two parties and the content involved in the conversation between the two parties; as an optimization solution, the digital matchmaker will evaluate the effectiveness of the conversation process between the two parties, and the evaluation output is a summary of the communication effect for the two parties to decide whether to continue the communication; as an optimization solution, the digital matchmaker will also conduct a security assessment on the content of the communication conversation between the two parties at the same time, and is responsible for supervising and ensuring the security of the content of the online communication conversation between the two parties; S7: After the three-party conversation continues for a period of time, the digital matchmaker determines that the two dating parties can conduct offline blind date communication based on the effectiveness evaluation results of the chat process and the security evaluation results of the communication conversation content, and notifies the two dating parties through the mobile phone application that they can exchange communication methods and conduct offline face-to-face blind date communication; S8: During the three-party conversation, the dating parties can terminate the three-party conversation at any time and close the three-party conversation group. If the digital matchmaker confirms that the two dating parties have no intention or cannot communicate, or there are unsafe factors based on the effectiveness evaluation results of the chat process and the security evaluation results of the communication conversation content, the three-party conversation can also be terminated and the three-party conversation group can be closed.

2. The intelligent matchmaking method according to claim 1, characterized in that: When the digital matchmaker collects basic information related to marriage, love and dating from users through communication and dialogue, it will evaluate the authenticity of the collected information. The specific evaluation method is still the communication and dialogue method. Based on the collected basic information related to marriage, love and dating, additional questions are asked to collect additional information for authenticity evaluation.

3. The intelligent matchmaking method according to claim 1, characterized in that: Both parties in dating and marriage who have the intention of initial dating need to go through a three-party conversation hosted by the digital matchmaker. Only after the effectiveness of the communication process and the security of the communication content have been evaluated, will they be eligible to exchange communication methods and conduct offline face-to-face blind date communication.

4. The intelligent matchmaking method according to claim 1, characterized in that: In the three-party conversation, the digital matchmaker will evaluate the effectiveness of the conversation process between the two parties in the dating process, and the evaluation results will be used as a reference for the two parties to decide whether to continue the communication.

5. The intelligent matchmaking method according to claim 1, characterized in that: In the three-party online communication, the digital matchmaker will evaluate the security of the conversation content between the two parties in the dating and marriage process, and is responsible for supervising and ensuring the security of the online communication content between the two parties.