The invention relates to the technical field of household paper, and particularly relates to super-soft super-tough household paper and a production method thereof. The household paper is prepared from the following raw materials in parts by weight: 80-120 parts of pulp, 5-10 parts of an oiling agent, 4-8 parts of polyol, 3-7 parts of non-ionic surfactant, 3-7 parts of a softening agent, 3-7 parts of reinforcement fibers, 1-5 parts of a dry strength agent and 1-5 parts of a wet strength agent, wherein the softening agent is mixture of stearin, diethylenetriamine and dimethyl sulfate in a weight ratio of (1.2-1.8):1:(1.6-2.4). The production method comprises the steps of pulping, removing sands, screening the pulp, spraying the pulp, dehydrating, drying, peeling, rolling and packaging. The household paper has good softness, good toughness, good dry and wet strength, environmental friendliness and low cost; and the production method is simple in process, convenient to operate and control, stable in quality, high in production efficiency, energy-saving and environment-friendly.