The invention provides an 
infrared matching method with a feedback function. The method comprises the steps: storing and transmitting an 
infrared code by adopting a 
cloud server, automatically transmitting the 
infrared code to an infrared matching device after the 
cloud server receives a mobile terminal matching instruction, transmitting an infrared 
signal to an electric appliance after the infrared matching device receives an infrared code 
instruction set, and monitoring a power-on situation of the household electric appliance by virtue of an electric appliance state monitoring device, wherein whether the matching is succeeded or not can be remotely confirmed. According to the infrared matching method, the 
automation is completely realized, the infrared matching can be realized only by pressing a starting button, and the operation is easy and convenient; according to the entire infrared code matching process, only a power-on instruction needs to be matched by simplifying the 
instruction set, so that the matching time is shortened, the matching success rate is increased, and the user experience is improved. The invention also provides an infrared matching 
system utilizing the method. The infrared matching 
system comprises the mobile terminal, the 
cloud server, the infrared matching device and the electric appliance state monitoring device.