The invention provides an incoming call reminding method and an incoming call reminding device, which are applied to the field of communication; the incoming call reminding method disclosed by the invention is as follows concretely: when detecting an incoming call, judging whether a current incoming call reminding manner is a ringing mode; if so, firstly entering a pre-reminding mode, wherein the reminding manner in the pre-reminding mode includes at least one non-voice reminding manner; in the pre-reminding mode, detecting whether an operation instruction for the incoming call is received; if the operation instruction is received, exiting from the incoming call reminding; and otherwise, after finishing the pre-reminding mode, entering the ringing mode for the incoming call reminding. Compared with the prior art, under the condition of the ringing mode, the incoming call is reminded with a voice, the pre-reminding mode is entered firstly, and the incoming call is reminded in the non-voice manner at the pre-reminding mode, so a user has enough time to process the incoming call; the method and the device can prevent the ring tone from disturbing others when a scene mode is forgotten to set and prevent a harassment call which is hanged up when ringing for one voice; and the user experience is improved.