The embodiment of the invention provides a traffic engineering and server selection joint optimization method, a traffic engineering and server selection joint optimization system and related equipment. An optimal solution is calculated by utilizing a small amount of information in a relatively shorter convergence time on the premise of not disclosing key bottom-layer network information to a content provider (CP) by an instant service provider (ISP). The method comprises that: a router determines each outgoing link bearing traffic belonging to the same user node; the router acquires optimal link weights of each outgoing link; and the router acquires determines a division strategy of the traffic belonging to the same user node on any outgoing link (u,v) in the outgoing links according to the optimal link weights and the traffic belonging to the same user node. In the method, the system and the related equipment, calculation is not required to be performed for a plurality of turns, so the amount of transmitted information is greatly reduced, the convergence time of the system is shortened, time consumption is low generally, and the traffic division determining efficiency is higher.