The invention discloses a customized making system and method suitable for a household Italian coffee machine. A controller, a sensor, an actuator and a user interaction unit are built on the basis ofa common coffee machine, and the customized making system is formed. The sensor comprises a weighing module, a thermal resistor, a thermocouple and a pressure gauge; the actuator comprises a solid-state relay and a voltage-reducing module; the user interaction unit is used for a user to set a coffee making mode, and the user can select an initial boiling temperature, a temperature gradient mode and a pressure mode and judge whether to intervene with large flow or not; the controller drives the actuator through feedforward feedback control based on a model, and a boiling temperature, pressureand flow curve is controlled according to the coffee making mode set by the user; the controller obtains a controller parameter through a test modeling and simulation method. On the basis of program control of the common coffee machine, parameter control is carried out in the making process, and the making quality of concentrated coffee is improved so that the user can automatically adjust the taste to meet the requirement for customized making.