The invention provides a method for carrying out individualized teaching and guiding. The method comprises the following steps of S101, generating and answering entrance diagnose examination questions; then S201, determining an individualized guiding stage according to an analysis report, and carrying out learning training; S301, carrying out individualized guiding tests of corresponding stages after learning, executing step S501 if passing the individualized guiding tests of the corresponding stages, otherwise executing step S401; S401, invoking corresponding ideas, skills and habit accomplishment training content to carry out learning training, and then executing step S301; S501, entering the individualized guiding in the next stage to learn. On the other hand, the invention also provides a server and a system for carrying out the individualized teaching and guiding. According to the method, the server and the system for carrying out the individualized teaching and guiding, provided by the invention, the purpose of individualized teaching and guiding is realized through diagnostic assessment and synchronous guiding, a mode of training, feedback, guiding and retraining is formed, an individual learning path is intelligently established, an efficient learning purpose is realized, and meanwhile, a lesson preparation direction can be provided for teachers.