The invention provides a defrosting control method and device for a refrigerator and the refrigerator. The defrosting control method for the refrigerator comprises the steps that when the refrigerator meets the defrosting condition, whether a compressor is in a stopped state or not is judged; if yes, the first stop duration of the compressor is recorded; the compressor is controlled to normally operate for the first predetermined duration and then is stopped again; and after the refrigerator is controlled to enter a natural defrosting mode and operate for the first stop duration, a heater works till defrosting is finished. According to the defrosting control method and device for the refrigerator and the refrigerator, the refrigerator can store the first stop duration of the compressor; the natural defrosting mode is arranged, so that the situation that the inner temperature of the refrigerator is raised too much is avoided, the food storing effect of the refrigerator is ensured, electricity energy is saved, and the using experience of a user is improved; and after the refrigerator is controlled to enter the natural defrosting mode and operate for the first stop duration, the heater works till defrosting is finished, and the defrosting progress of the refrigerator is accelerated.