The invention relates to an intelligent remote control management system of private parking spaces. The intelligent remote control management system mainly consists of a control device and a parking space lock device, wherein the control device consists of a password press key, a remote controller, a mobile phone and a computer, the parking space lock device mainly consists of a liftable U-shaped rod , an outer box body, a mechanical driving module, a circuit control module and an information receiving module, and the ascending and descending of the U-shaped rod are controlled mainly through adopting four modes for reaching the functions of parking space unlocking and locking management, wherein any one control device can send signals to the system for controlling the ascending and descending of the U-shaped rod of a parking space lock, and an infrared receiving module arranged in the device receives remote controller signals; an MC55 communication module is utilized for receiving short message signals of the mobile phone; a single chip microcomputer is utilized for recognizing the password press key to give out signals; the remote computer can recognize whether the parking spaces are in an vacant state or not, and the parking space information is collected and synthetically analyzed, so the omnibearing intelligent management on the parking spaces is realized. The parking space device adopts the fully sealed design, and has the unique functions such as burglary prevention, anti-collision warning and falling through resistance. The performance of the whole system is stable, the operation is simple, the cost is low, the technological content is high, the compatibility is high, and the intelligent remote control management system is applicable to middle-low-end residential districts of ordinary users, and can meet requirements of large-scale parking lots and high-grade residential districts for realizing intelligent property management.