The invention discloses a progressive die complex metal sheet member stamping process sequence planning method, comprising steps of performing metal plate characteristic identification, bending and expanding, generating a stock layout characteristic, and formulating a stock layout rule, listing all possible layout schemes by adopting a sequencing planning matrix, a synchronization sequence planning matrix, and an idle station planning matrix, listing all possible stock layout schemes, establishing an influence factor set U=[u1,u2,u3... un] and a corresponding weight set A=[w1,w2,w3, ...,wn], wherein w1+w2+w3+...+wn=1 and 0<=w1,w2,w3, ...,wn<=1, and calculating the multi-norm decision total score Ev sigma(j=i)<n>wjuj=w1*u1+w2*u2+w3*u3...wn*un according to the influence factor and the corresponding weight, wherein when the Ev value is the maximum, the scheme is optimal. The invention is simple and can obtain the optimal scheme through the data, can manufacture the correct working station stock layout without the stamping and processing knowledge and experience of the design personnel, gets rid of the designer, realizes the intelligent designing in a real meaning, and realizes the processing of the standardization production.