The invention relates to the technical field of intelligent vehicles, in particular to a vehicle monitoring method, system and device, and the method comprises the steps: receiving a robbery monitoring instruction transmitted by user side electronic equipment; responding to the robbery monitoring instruction, closing the wireless local area network hotspot, and closing a state indication identifier used for representing that the automobile data recorder is in a working state; collecting audio and video information, and sending the audio and video information to a user; and obtaining geographicposition information used for representing the current position of the vehicle, and sending the geographic position information to the user. According to the invention, after the stealing and robberymonitoring instruction is responded, the state indication identifier is closed while the wireless local area network hotspot is closed, so that the working state of the automobile data recorder can be prevented from being discovered. Meanwhile, after the robbery monitoring instruction is responded, the audio and video information is collected, the geographic position information of the vehicle isobtained, and the audio and video information and the geographic position information are sent to the user, so that the user can know the condition of the robbery vehicle in time.