The secure intelligent household gateway includes microprocessor, memory module, external network interface connected to Internet, internal network interface, serial port connected to intelligent household appliance, and interface of electrical source (IES). IES is connected to adapter of power supply. The microprocessor includes Web module, remote communication module (RCM), security management module (SMM), remote control module, and remote logging on module (RLM). The communication module of handset is connected to RCM, which is connected to SMM and the remote control module. SMM, the remote control module, and RLM are connected to module of Web server. The invention discloses reliable secure intelligent household gateway with simple operation based on remote control of handset.