The invention relates to BDABP type silicon containing epoxy imide matrix resin and a preparation method thereof. The matrix resin is prepared from 4,4'-bis(2,4-diamino phenoxy)biphenyl BDABP, epoxy resin, 3-aminopropyl trialkoxysilane, an imide oligomer and a curing agent. The preparation method comprises the following steps that 1, the imide oligomer is prepared; 2, 4,4'-bis(2,4-diamino phenoxy)biphenyl and the epoxy resin are placed in a reaction still, after stirring, mixing and reacting, the imide oligomer is added, the mixture continues to be stirred to react, then 3-aminopropyl trialkoxysilane is added and stirred to react, the curing agent is added, and the mixture is stirred and mixed to be uniform. The BDABP type silicon containing epoxy imide matrix resin can be widely applied to bonding among steel, copper, aluminum and other metal and ceramic, glass, resin-based composites and other base materials and preparation of glass fiber, aramid fiber and carbon fiber reinforced composites, and has good industrial prospects.