The invention relates to a flexible feeding system for assembling a connector. The system comprises a feeding elevator, a feeding vibration unit arranged on one side of the feeding elevator, a grabbing mechanical arm, a vision image unit, a feeding transfer unit, an assembling robot and an electric control cabinet, wherein the grabbing mechanical arm and the vision image unit are used in cooperation with the feeding vibration unit, the feeding transfer unit is arranged below the grabbing mechanical arm, the assembling robot is used in cooperation with the feeding transfer unit, and the electric control cabinet is electrically connected with the feeding elevator, the feeding vibration unit, the vision image unit, the grabbing mechanical arm, the feeding transfer unit and the assembling robot. Compared with the prior art, the flexible feeding system is simple and compact in structure, convenient and fast to operate, economical, practical, high in automation degree and flexible and convenient to produce and use; and wire replacing is convenient and fast, and the conveying efficiency of materials for assembling the connector can be effectively improved.