The invention discloses a wear-resistant belt material composition, and a wear-resistant belt and a preparation method thereof. The composition comprises styrene-butadiene rubber, nitrile-butadiene rubber, a coumarone indene resin, nano calcium carbonate, nano calcium oxide, paraffin, silicone oil and sulfur. Relative to 100 parts by weight of the styrene-butadiene rubber, the content of the nitrile-butadiene rubber is 30-60 parts by weight, the content of the coumarone indene resin is 10-30 parts by weight, the content of the nano calcium carbonate is 1-5 parts by weight, the content of the nano calcium oxide is 1-5 parts by weight, the content of the paraffin is 3-10 parts by weight, the content of the silicone oil is 5-15 parts by weight, and the content of the sulfur is 2-6 parts by weight. Through the design, the effects of effectively resisting wear, greatly lowering the replacement cost and use cost and enhancing the production efficiency are realized.