The invention discloses a defrosting control method, which comprises the steps of when an air conditioner operates at a heating mode, judging whether defrosting is required or not; if defrosting is not required, controlling the air conditioner to keep at the heating mode; if defrosting is required, controlling the air conditioner to switch the heating mode into a defrosting mode, controlling an operating mode of a four-way valve to be unchanged, controlling a compressor and an indoor fan to work continuously, switching on a refrigerant heating device to heat a refrigerant flowing into a condenser, and switching off an outdoor fan; and when the air conditioner is at the defrosting mode and reaches first preset time, switching off the refrigerant heating device, switching on the outdoor fan, and controlling the air conditioner to operate according to parameters corresponding to the heating mode. The invention further discloses a defrosting control device and the air conditioner. According to the defrosting control method, the defrosting control device and the air conditioner provided by the invention, during a whole heating, defrosting and heating period operation process, the compressor operates continuously, and the refrigerant continuously releases heat indoors when flowing through an evaporator, so that indoor temperature can remain stable.