The invention provides a design method of a buffering, energy dissipation and anti-beam-falling device used for a bridge. According to the displacement of a friction pendulum, the section form of the buffering, energy dissipation and anti-beam-falling device required to be used is derived reversely, the structural size of the device is further determined, according to the actual requirement, the buffering, energy dissipation and anti-beam-falling device can be mutually matched and coordinated with the friction pendulum, waste of material design or safety hazards are avoided, when a large earthquake occurs, a buffering and anti-beam-falling baffle plate or damping mortises and tenons can join yielding energy dissipation, the energy dissipation capacity of the system is effectively improved, when a small earthquake occurs, the device can play a role in protection and position limiting, the upper portion structure of the bridge is prevented from collision or beam falling or other serious damage, through the cooperation of the friction pendulum and other seismic mitigation and isolation supports, the shock insulation effect can be achieved, the safety of the whole structure is guaranteed, the device is particularly suitable for earthquake fortification in a near fault seismic oscillation region, the safety and maintainability of the bridge are enhanced, and the bridge maintenance cost after the earthquake is reduced.