The invention relates to a friction damper. The friction damper comprises a plunger and an arresting cylinder, wherein at least part of the plunger is closely contacted with the working surface of the inner wall of the arresting cylinder, and the friction damper is characterized in that the working surface of the external surface of the arresting cylinder, corresponding to the inner wall of the arresting cylinder, is provided with an annularly closed lacing device. Compared with other structural dampers, the friction damper provided by the invention has the advantages that the structure is simple, a precision part is not needed, the tonnage is large, the journey is long, the manufacturing cost is low, the property is stable, the operation is reliable, the friction damper can reset as being provided with an unloading device, the basic maintenance is not needed, and the service life is long; and the friction damper can be use again after overhauling, and the friction damper has a reproducible characteristic, is very environment-friendly, and can be widely applied to multiple fields such as industry, construction, railway and bridge.