The invention relates to a hoisting and erecting system and an erecting control method for a rocket launch platform at sea. The hoisting and erecting system includes an erecting unit and a buffer unit, and the erecting unit includes a hoist, an erecting steel wire rope, an erecting pulley and a connection Ring; the buffer unit includes a support arm, a buffer pulley, a reversing pulley, a limit rod, a buffer wire rope, a pendant and a docking arm. The support arm is fixed with two limit plates, and the left side of the two limit plates is provided with a limit card slot, the limit rod is in the limit card slot of the two limit plates, the limit rod is connected to one end of the buffer wire rope, the other end of the buffer wire rope is connected to the pendant by bypassing the reversing pulley and the buffer pulley, and the docking arm is fixed on On the erecting frame, two docking plates are fixed on the upper end of the docking arm, and the upper side of the two docking plates is provided with a docking card slot, which has the advantages of simple structure, stable movement, safety and reliability, good cushioning effect and strong adaptability. The erecting control method has the advantages of simple process, easy realization and high safety.