This invention relates to an anti-stealing alarm and remote watching and control device, the main part of which information of send and receive process center is a microcomputer, a palm-size computer or an intelligent cell phone, having functions of ordinary computes, palm-size computers and intelligent cell phones. The center installs special anti-stealing alarm monitor software with wireless control interface to control household appliances or other devices, the monitor end has various sensing devices and pick-up devices, users may set parameters of triggering alarm functions for the devices, when the received information meets the alarm conditions, the alarm function is started at once, the picked-up images, pictures and received information are stored in its own memory, and sends information to the remote controller of a user, who can determine if some one has intruded to the monitored places.