A connector apparatus for controlling fluid dispensing / transmission that includes a control component for communication between couplers thereof. A first coupler has a 
transmitter, and is releasably connected with a 
mating reader coupler that has a 
transmitter and 
fluid control device to exchange information with the 
transmitter of the first coupler. The transmitters communicate and are operated by 
wireless means such as by RF devices. Upon confirming that the first coupler is properly coupled to the 
mating coupler and that the first coupler has a proper identification, the 
fluid control device controls fluid flow, using the transmitters of the first coupler and the 
mating reader coupler, under predetermined parameters, e.g., pressure, temperature, duration, and flow rate, as indicated in the first coupler.