The invention discloses a hydraulic buffer device and a buffer oil cylinder comprising the device, belongs to the field of hydraulic parts and overcomes the defects that a buffer mechanism of the buffer oil cylinder in the prior art is complex, high in manufacturing accuracy requirement, difficult in structural arrangement, low in buffer efficiency and reliability, poor in buffer effect controllability and buffer quality, and difficultly employs a composite mode of throttling back pressure of an oil return chamber and pressure-relief unloading of a high pressure chamber at the same time. An annunciator is arranged at a position where an oil cylinder journey approaches to a destination so as to control movement of a slide valve of the buffer device, thus the opening degree and the liquid flow direction of a valve opening of a buffer valve are dynamically regulated, and an oil pressure of an oil cylinder which enters into the oil return chamber is further controlled; a movement velocity of an oil cylinder piston at the destination of the journey is controlled through the modes of the pressure-relief unloading of the high pressure chamber of an oil cylinder and / or the throttling back pressure of the oil return chamber, thus high quality buffer, good buffer controllability and high reliability of the oil cylinder are realized, and the overall quality of a product is improved.