The invention discloses a load type catalyst used for combining di-n-propylamine, which utilizes roasted gama-alumina as a carrier. An active component is loaded on the carrier and is composed of nickel, copper, zinc and ruthenium. The weight sum of the nickel, the copper, the zinc, the ruthenium and the roasted gama-alumina is the total weight. The nickel occupies 15% to 25% of the total weight, the copper occupies 5% to 12% of the total weight, the zinc occupies 0.5% to 1% of the total weight, and the ruthenium occupies 0.5% to 1% of the total weight. A preparation method of the load type catalyst for combining the di-n-propylamine and a method for preparing the di-n-propylamine by using the load type catalyst are further disclosed. N-propylamine is added in a raw material cylinder, is gasified and then passes through a fixed bed reactor containing an activated load type catalyst, catalyst disproportionated reaction is conducted under the hydrogen condition, a product is collected after condensation, and rectification is conducted to obtain the di-n-propylamine.