The invention discloses an optical fiber connector and a connecting device. The connector comprises a connecting shell and a pin assembly body, wherein the connecting shell is provided with a first accommodating cavity and a first through hole, the pin assembly body is provided with a first connecting part and a first clamping part, the first clamping part of the pin assembly body is arranged in the first through hole in a penetrating manner, and the first connecting part is partially exposed out of the first through hole. The connecting device comprises a connector and an adapter, wherein the adapter is provided with a second containing cavity and a groove hole. According to the invention, the first clamping part of the pin assembly body is clamped with the connecting shell, and the first connecting part is clamped with the slotted hole of the adapter, so that the installation of the connector and the adapter is completed; and during disassembling, the first connecting part is separated from the slotted hole of the adapter in a clamping manner, and the first clamping part is separated from the connecting shell in a clamping manner, so that the operation is carried out along one direction, the adapter is separated, plugging connection is simple, dismounting is convenient, damage to the connector or the adapter is avoided, and reliability is improved.