The invention discloses a three-dimensional coupling measuring and control device and method. The device comprises a wave maker, water inlets and outlets in the two ends, an experiment area, a water reservoir, a water level measuring instrument, a wave height meter, an industrial personal computer, a frequency converter and a bidirectional pump motor. The industrial control computer generates a water level adjusting instruction according to the water level change detected by the water level measuring instrument and sends the instruction to the frequency converter, so that the frequency converter controls the rotation speed and rotation direction of the bidirectional pump motor according to the water level adjusting instruction, water in a test area is pumped to the water reservoir throughthe water inlets and outlets at the two ends, and the water level of the test area reaches a set water level; and automatic iterative correction and splicing are carried out on a plurality of discretewave making files according to a simulation result detected by the wave height meter, and processed wave making files are sent to the wave making machine, so that the wave making machine carries outwave making according to the processed wave making files, and the water level of the test area reaches a set wave height and a set period. According to the invention, three-dimensional coupling experiments of wave, tide and storm surge simulation in a laboratory can be realized.