The invention discloses a message processing method and system, a first terminal and a second terminal. The message processing method comprises the steps: responding a first operation, and entering an operation interface of a first application; obtaining a second operation on the operation interface of the first application; responding the second operation, triggering to enable a message feedback function, creating a feedback message at the first terminal, invoking a session remind and sending the feedback message; on the second terminal, receiving the feedback message, performing a third operation, generating a message operation state based on the third operation, encapsulating the message operation state into a first prompt message, and feeding back the first prompt message; on the first terminal, receiving the first prompt message, simultaneously displaying the feedback message and the first prompt message on the operation interface of the first application, obtaining the message operation state after decapsulation, and displaying an operation result of group members in the current message interaction session by aiming at the feedback message.