The invention discloses a method for reducing a water flow of an air conditioning system and a dynamic temperature difference flow regulating valve. The air conditioning system is composed of devices of a cooling main machine, a heating main machine, a water pump, a fan, a heat exchanging coil pipe and the like. The dynamic temperature difference flow regulating valve comprises a water flow regulating valve, a driver, heat exchanging coil pipe water inlet and outlet temperature sensors, a controller, an indoor air temperature sensor, an indoor air temperature setting device or an indoor cooling and heating load calculator. In the cooling work condition, the controller independently runs after the temperature sensors detect water temperatures and always keeps temperature difference of inlet and outlet water to be at the optimum value so that cooling and dehumidification effects can be guaranteed, and the phenomenon that large flow and small temperature difference occur to a water system is avoided; in the dry cooling work condition or the heating work condition, the controller always keeps the temperature difference of the inlet and outlet water to be at the maximum value according to the indoor air temperature sensor and the indoor air temperature setting device or the indoor cooling and heating load calculator, namely, the dynamic temperature difference flow regulating valve can achieve minimum flow operation in multiple work conditions, and energy consumption of the water pump is further reduced.