The invention provides a method for preparing a curing agent intermediate N,N,N-tris(N'-hydroxyethyl-3'-propionic acid amido)-1,3,5-triazine, which uses N,N ,N‑tris(3'‑methyl propionate)‑1,3,5‑triazine and monoethanolamine are used as raw materials, and the curing agent intermediate N,N,N‑ Tris(N'-hydroxyethyl-3'-propionamido)-1,3,5-triazine. The present invention synthesizes curing agent intermediate N,N,N-tris(N'-hydroxyethyl-3'-propionic acid amido)-1,3,5-triazine, the separation and purification process is simple, the reaction time is short, and the product The yield can reach more than 96%, the product has high purity, less energy consumption, less environmental pollution and low cost, and is an ideal process for realizing industrialized production.