The invention discloses a pull rod node assembly and a design method thereof. The pull rod node assembly comprises a pull rod and a node pressed into the pull rod; the node is composed of a core shaftand rubber bonded to the core shaft in a vulcanized mode. The node is characterized in that a part, matched with the pull rod, of the node is divided into three sections, wherein a stop section is located in the middle and has a stop function, and symmetrical sections are arranged on the left side and the right side of the stop section in a mirror symmetry mode; the core shaft diameter of the stop section is larger than that of the symmetrical sections, the rubber thickness of the stop section is smaller than that of the symmetrical sections, the rubber of the stop section is in a free state,and the rubber of the symmetrical sections is in a pre-compression state. Comfortable performance is improved, rigidity requirements under large loads and damping requirements and bearing requirements of the node under different lines are met, fatigue life of products is prolonged, and safety of vehicle operation is guaranteed.