The invention belongs to the field of engine lubricants, and relates to preparation of an extreme pressure anti-wearing additive and energy-saving environmental-friendly engine oil containing same. Preparation of the extreme pressure anti-wearing additive comprises the following steps: dissolving
lanthanum bromide into
distilled water, stirring till a clear and transparent liquid, dropping an
ethanol solution containing polymeric
ionic liquid modified
graphene and
sodium carbonate drop by drop under violent stirring, then the solution can be white and muddy immediately, implementing constant-temperature reaction, after reaction is completed, leaving to stand and precipitate, filtering, washing the precipitate for multiple times with
distilled water, further washing for multiple times with absolute ethyl
alcohol, finally washing for multiple times with a
potassium tetrafluoroborate solution, implementing particle exchange,
drying so as to obtain a sample, and
grinding for later use. The energy-saving environmental-friendly engine oil containing the extreme pressure anti-wearing additive comprises basic oil, an anti-wearing agent, the extreme pressure anti-wearing additive, a high-temperature
antioxidant, a
clearing agent, a dispersing agent, a
viscosity index improver, and the like. The engine oil designed from the extreme pressure anti-wearing additive is relatively good in bearing capability and extreme pressure anti-wearing property, and is relatively good in environmental-friendliness.