The invention discloses a process for preparing nanometer micro emulsifying wax, wherein components of raw material which is formed according to percentage by weight are that paraffin 2-40%, viscosity additive 1-30%, emulsifying agent 3-12%, oxygenated polythene wax 1-50%, oxygenated polypropylene wax 0.001-40%, water 30-70% and alkali 0.001-5%, the process for preparation comprises the following steps: batching paraffin, additive and emulsifying agent according to the above percentage by weight, and then placing into a special-purpose reaction kettle to heat up, wherein the temperature is 80-150 DEG C, batching water and alkali again according to the above percentage by weight, and then placing into another reaction kettle, heating up, wherein the temperature is 80-150 DEG C, slowly adding water in the second reaction kettle into the oil phase of the first reaction kettle, and slowly stirring, emulsifying, cooling nanometer oil emulsion through water after emulsifying for 10-160 minutes, wherein the temperature is 20-60 DEF C, and taking out nanometer oil emulsion. The process for preparation of the invention has the advantages of adjustable product solid phase component fusing point, thin and fine grain diameter, correct viscosity and extended application.