The invention relates to a spinning assembly for polyester fibers and an assembling device and method thereof. The spinning assembly comprises an assembly body, and a fastening ring, a limiting pin, an upper cover, a sand cup sleeve piece, a spot welding net, a sealing gasket, a positioning pin I and a spinneret plate are sequentially arranged in the assembly body; the sand cup sleeve piece comprises a sand cup, and a pressing block, a sealing ring, a single-layer net, filter sand, an extrusion ring, an edge covering net sheet and a single-layer coarse net sheet which are sequentially arranged in the sand cup; a spring retainer ring is arranged between the fastening ring and the upper cover, and is buckled and pressed on the upper cover by the fastening ring; the spring retainer ring is in a C shape, and holes are formed in the inner sides of C-shaped openings respectively; and two concave cavities are formed in the outer bottom of the sand cup, bosses are arranged on the peripheries of the two concave cavities, and continuous grooves are formed in the upper surfaces of the bosses. According to the spinning assembly for the polyester fibers, an automatic integrated device capable of evenly stabilizing the internal pressure of the assembly is used in the assembly process, it is guaranteed that the residence time of a melt in the assembly body is consistent, the melt fluidity is good, and the temperature difference of the surfaces of spinneret plates is small.