The invention discloses a friction wear testing machine and comprises an abrading agent slot, a grinding steel wheel that is suspended in the abrading agent slot, a boosting lever that has a vertical arm suspended between the grinding steel wheel and a lateral wall of the abrading agent slot, a servo sand slot that has a sand discharging mouth and a transmission pipe, a servo spring loading mechanism that is connected with a horizontal arm of the boosting lever, a load sensor that is serially connected between the servo spring loading mechanism and the boosting lever and a temperature sensor that is arranged on the back of a sample. A main shaft of the grinding steel wheel is arranged on a bearing holder, connected with a torque sensor through a flexible coupler and connected with a frequency-varied speed-regulating drive motor, and a computer adjusts and detects the sand discharge amount of the sand slot, the rotating speed and the torque of the frequency-varied speed-regulating drive motor, and the loading capacity of the servo spring loading mechanism in real time, and can detect and record the rotational frequency of the grinding steel wheel and sample temperature in real time. The friction wear testing machine can detect and analyze the abrasion resistance and the frictional behaviour of hard alloy products under the conditions close to real working conditions.