The application belongs to the technical field of Internet, and relates to a marriage and dating method and
system based on relationship management and independent life cycle constraint, which comprises the following steps: unified state coding and initialization, many-to-many relationship establishment and seat allocation, independent life cycle timing and dynamic constraint management, two-way threshold automatic confirmation and state migration, dynamic seat supplement and
system closed-loop management, when the relationship is terminated due to expiration or active termination, the seats of both parties are released through an atomic transaction and the global state is updated, a mixed recommendation formula containing a
cosine similarity, a Pearson
correlation coefficient and an
activity factor is used to generate and push new matching objects for the released seat users, and
system parameters are dynamically adjusted through monitoring indicators to realize
adaptive optimization. The matching efficiency can be significantly improved, the psychological pressure of users can be reduced, the fairness and timeliness of relationship development can be ensured, high
automation and low manual intervention can be realized, and high
scalability and adaptability are achieved.