The invention discloses a quick-drying friction-resisting high-temperature-resistant primer. The primer consists of bisphenol F type liquid epoxy resin, iron oxide red powder, titanium dioxide, silicon micro-powder, a multifunctional auxiliary agent AMP-95, graphite powder, polyethylene glycol and organic fluorine modified acrylic resin; the primer comprises the following components in percentage by weight: 23-25% of bisphenol F type liquid epoxy resin, 5-8% of iron oxide red powder, 12-15% of titanium dioxide, 10-12% of silicon micro-powder, 15-18% of multifunctional auxiliary agent AMP-95, 12-15% of graphite powder, 3-8% of polyethylene glycol and the balance of organic fluorine modified acrylic resin. The invention also provides a preparation method of the quick-drying friction-resisting high-temperature-resistant primer. The primer disclosed by the invention is quick to dry, is odor-free, has stability in alkali and most of solvents, has good anti-corrosion, gas-blocking and water-stopping properties and the like, has good friction resistance and high temperature resistance, and is long in service life.