The invention provides a wet-mixed mortar modifier. Every 1,000 parts of the wet-mixed mortar modifier comprises 15-20 parts of sodium tripolyphosphate, 1-2 parts of sodium hexametaphosphate, 4-5 parts of phosphonobutane tricarboxylic acid, 32-44 parts of glucose, 24-33 parts of citric acid, 50-80 parts of zeolite powder, 80-100 parts of silica fume, 200 parts of heavy calcium carbonate, 10-15 parts of starch ether, 20-40 parts of hydroxyethyl methyl cellulose ether, 1-2 parts of sodium dodecyl sulfate, 28-50 parts of a polycarboxylate superplasticizer, 20-25 parts of a polycarboxylate slump retaining agent, 40-80 parts of a naphthalene-based superplasticizer, 20-25 parts of redispersible latex powder, 8-10 parts of beta-cyclodextrin and the balance of fly ash. The plasticity-maintaining time of the wet-mixed mortar modifier is prolonged to 36 h, the later strength and bondability of the wet-mixed mortar are improved simultaneously, the mortar durability is improved, the problems of high probability of hollowing, cracking, leaking and the like of plastering mortar are solved, and the wet-mixed mortar modifier has low energy consumption and is free of chemical and radioactive contamination.