The invention relates to a magneto-rheological damper, in particular to a multistage extrusion-type magneto-rheological damper. The multistage extrusion-type magneto-rheological damper is suitable for the vibration isolation of an engine or other equipment. The damper comprises an upper end cover, an outer cylinder body, a piston rod, a sealing ring, a sealing bolt, a working cavity, a lower end cover and a piston head, and is characterized in that the damper also comprises a magnetic-isolation sleeve, a coil, an upper spacing spring, an auxiliary piston head, an inner cylinder body and a lower spacing spring, wherein the working cavity is divided into an inner working cavity and an outer working cavity by the inner cylinder body; the working cavity is filled with magneto-rheological liquid; the auxiliary piston head and the piston head connected to the piston rod respectively extrude the magneto-rheological liquid back and forth in the two working cavities to generate radial flowing so as to generate damping force; and the coil is arranged between the outer cylinder body and the magnetic-isolation sleeve to provide a magnetic field so as to regulate the magnitude of the damping force in real time. The output force of the multistage extrusion-type magneto-rheological damper is much more than that of a common magneto-rheological damper, and especially, the impact generated when the equipment is greatly and intensively vibrated under the severe environment can be avoided. The multistage extrusion-type magneto-rheological damper has the advantages of reasonability in design, simple construction, high efficiency, high response speed, high working reliability, good vibration damping effect and long service life.