The invention discloses a preparation method of an enhanced fly ash grinding aid, and the specific method is as follows: firstly preparing an additive A, then preparing an additive B, then mixing the additive A, the additive B, gypsum and limestone according to a certain proportion, and stirring to obtain the enhanced fly ash grinding aid. According to the cement grinding aid, the stability of cement is guaranteed, the setting strength of the cement is enhanced, meanwhile, the compressive strength and the breaking strength of cement mortar are guaranteed, the prepared grinding aid is high in activity, the grinding efficiency is greatly improved, in the grinding process of the cement, the over-grinding reality and the ball and forging wrapping phenomena are avoided, the use amount of the cement is greatly reduced, and the cost is reduced. According to the invention, the carboxylic acid compound is used as the raw material, and the preparation process is free of chlorine element, so that the reinforcing steel bar cannot be rusted when the cement is used.