The present invention discloses a flexible measuring device, which belongs to the technical field of connecting rod measurement, including a base, a measuring bracket slidably connected to the base, a pin detection table I and a pin detection table II movably connected to the measuring bracket, a limited position component is arranged on the base, which is used to fix the connecting rod to be measured; an adjusting component is arranged on the base, and a smearing and cleaning component is arranged on the adjusting component. The present invention can automatically insert and remove the support sheet during measurement, automatically adapt to the bending and twisting of the connecting rod to be measured to compensate for its displacement, and no manual operation is required by personnel; it can adapt to different apertures on the connecting rod to be measured and detect connecting rods of different thicknesses to be measured, and has a wide range of applications; it can automatically and evenly apply lubricating liquid to the hole wall of the connecting rod to be measured; it can clean the dust and impurities on the inner wall before measurement to prevent affecting the measurement; after the measurement is completed, the lubricating liquid on the hole wall is cleaned to prevent the inner wall from being stuck with dust due to the lubricating liquid, etc., to ensure the cleanliness of the connecting rod to be measured.