The invention relates to a high-fillibility high-rubbing property primer and a preparation method thereof. The method comprises the following steps: according to parts by weight, adding 20-40 parts of modified acrylic resin A, 10-20 parts of modified acrylic resin B, 2-4 parts of wetting dispersant, 10-15 parts of nano talcum powder, 5-10 parts of superfine barium sulfate, 0.2-0.5 parts of carbon black, 0.5-1 part of anti-settling agent, 5-15 parts of xylene, 5-10 parts of n-butyl acetate and 5-10 parts of dimethyl-4-heptanone respectively in a vat in sequence, and stirring for 30min at 600-800r / min, then putting into a grinder to grind to a fineness below 10 micrometers and discharging, and finally adding 0.2-0.5 parts of fluorocarbon-modified polyacrylic acid flatting agent and stirring for 30min at 600-800r / min. Compared with the prior art, the primer has the advantages of excellent adhesive force on various PP+GF (propene polymer and glass fiber), great easiness in polishing, excellent recoatability, suitability for various finishing coats and the like.