The invention relates to a wear-resistant high-impact-resistance nylon composite material which comprises the following components in parts by weight: 20-80 parts of nylon resin, 10-50 parts of fiber material, 10-40 parts of anti-wear agents, 0.1-2 parts of surface treating agent perfluoropolyether, 0.1-1.0 part of lubricant and 0.1-0.6 part of antioxidant. The preparation method comprises the following steps: uniformly mixing different types of anti-wear agents at medium speed; heating to 90-100 DEG C, adding the perfluoropolyether, and uniformly mixing at high speed; adding the nylon resin, lubricant and antioxidant, and continuing mixing uniformly; and carrying out melt blending extrusion, drawing, cooling, and granulation on the obtained mixture and fiber material through a double screw extruder, thereby obtaining the wear-resistant high-impact-resistance nylon composite material. The wear-resistant high-impact-resistance nylon composite material has the advantages of low friction factor, favorable wear resistance, high mechanical strength, favorable heat resistance, excellent toughness, excellent impact resistance, low mold shrinkage rate, favorable dimensional stability, favorable flowability and high processability.