The invention discloses an assembly type energy consumption beam column node, comprising a cantilever convex section, a beam end concave opening, a rubber cushion block, and a bolt connecting pair which are welded to the column; the cantilever convex section, the beam end concave opening, and the rubber cushion block are connected to be one body through the bolt connecting pair; the cantilever convex section consists of an upper wing edge, a lower wing edge, a web plate, an end plate, and a friction element bonded to the upper surface of the upper wing edge and the lower surface of the lower wing edge; the upper wing edge, the lower wing edge, and the web plate are formed to be a transverse-H shaped section; circular bolt holes are arranged on the upper wing edge, the lower wing edge and the end plate; the beam end concave opening consists of an upper overhanging wing edge, a lower overhanging wing edge, and a bottom plate of the transverse-H shaped section beam; waist bolt holes are formed on the upper overhanging wing edge and the lower overhanging wing edge, and the circular bolt hole is formed on the bottom plate. The assembly type energy consumption beam column node can automatically reset and slip in earthquake or fire disaster, so ass to realize the reciprocating friction and energy consumption, guarantee that node has stable and high-efficient energy consumption ability in the whole disaster process, avoid brittle failure of the rigid node, and thereby reducing the repair cost after disaster.