The invention relates to the technical field of hard water treatment and utilization systems, in particular to a tap water hardness softening and wastewater recycling system. According to the technical scheme, the system comprises a hard water treatment assembly and a waste water utilization assembly, the hard water treatment assembly comprises an activated carbon filter, the output end of the activated carbon filter is connected with a full-automatic water softener, the output end of the full-automatic water softener is provided with a softened water tank, the output end of the softened water tank is provided with a washing tower, the output end of the washing tower is connected with a wastewater storage tank, the output end of the wastewater storage tank is connected with an air floatation tank, and the output end of the air floatation tank is connected with a wastewater relay tank. The system is used for softening hard water, improving the water treatment effect, reducing the water scaling probability, reducing the energy consumption, prolonging the service life of equipment, reducing the cleaning and maintenance cost, filtering wastewater for use, improving the energy utilization rate, avoiding scaling of a cooling unit, improving the workshop production efficiency and reducing the enterprise cost, and is suitable for popularization and use.