A self-balancing through-flow charge returner is provided, which comprises a stage-I loosening plenum, a stage-I loosening nozzle button, a material-falling pipe, an adjusting section, a stage-II loosening air hose, an ash releasing pipe, a spile valve, a horizontal conveying section, an outlet section and a stage-II loosening plenum. The invention is basically characterized in that, two stages of loosening air are provided, the stage-I loosening air is at the adjusting section and inside the central line of the material-falling pipe; air is distributed by a cylindrical (not oriented) nozzle button or an oriented nozzle button; the stage-II loosening air hose is like a flute, passes into the returner from the side of the adjusting section, is located above the ash releasing pipe; the two stages of loosening air distribute air independently, the air pressure of the stage-II loosening air is higher than that of the state-I loosening air. The returner is additionally characterized in that, the included angle between the bottom plate of the adjusting section and the level is 0-15 degree; the through-flow area of the horizontal conveying section is 1/2-1 of the through-flow area of the material-falling pipe; the outlet section is a round or square pipe, the diameter is bigger than that of the material-falling pipe; the outlet section uses a baffle to stop the influence of air flow. The invention is controllable and self balancing, can not only prevent back flowing of air flow in the furnace tank, but also can adjust the flow of solid material, also can solve the instantaneous choking due to small slag by releasing material timely, and is applicable for returning solid particles of circulating fluid bed.