The invention relates to a passivator for remediation of farmland soil subjected to combined pollution of heavy metals such as cadmium, chromium, copper and nickel, and a preparation method and a use method of the passivator. The passivator is prepared from a passivator A and a passivator B, wherein the passivator A is prepared from montmorillonite, kieselguhr, sepiolite, illite and ferrous sulfate; the passivator B is prepared from periclase, calcite, calcium magnesium phosphate fertilizer, plant ash and calcium hydroxide; the passivator is suitable for the farmland soil subjected to the combined pollution of the cadmium, the chromium, the copper and the nickel, and is prepared from the multiple different porous absorption materials with specific contents and a passivation material; the components of the passivator have complementary advantages, and the principles such as absorption and stabilization are combined; the combination forms of the heavy metals are effectively enhanced by ion exchange, complexing, chelating and adsorption methods, and the combination forms are converted into more stable strong organic binding states and residue states, so that the effective state contents of the heavy metals in the farmland soil are effectively reduced, and the passivation effect is long-acting and stable; therefore, the passivator has a great repair effect for the farmland soil subjected to combined pollution of the cadmium, the chromium, the copper and the nickel.