The invention discloses a chemical coarsening and metallizing process for calcium magnesium titanate ceramic, belonging to the technical field of ceramic surface treatment. The invention aims to solvethe problem of poor adhesive force of a subsequent coating due to the fact that an effective coarsening process for the calcium magnesium titanate ceramic has not been reported in the industry at present. According to main points of a technical scheme in the invention, the process is characterized by specifically comprising the following steps of oil removing, roughening, adjusting, activating, peptizing, chemical copper plating and electroplating. With the process, the surface of the calcium magnesium titanate ceramic can be effectively roughened; the surface roughness of a ceramic sample before roughening is 0.4-0.5 micrometer, and the surface roughness of the sample after roughening is 0.8-1.0 micrometer, so good adhesive force is provided for a subsequent metal plating layer; technological operation is convenient, the whole process is a wet process, operation temperature is relatively mild, and risks are relatively low; and in addition, requirements on equipment are reduced, and the production cost of a product is also reduced.