The invention belongs to the technical field of building materials, and provides a method for preparing building material products through processing industrial solid waste by hydration-carbonation coupling technique. The method comprises steps of uniformly mixing the industrial waste comprising at least one of calcium oxide, calcium hydroxide, dicalcium silicate, tricalcium silicate and tobermorite with alkaline excitation material and proper amount of water so as to prepare the blank of the building material product, wherein the industrial waste comprises steel slag, mineral waste residue, furnace slag, coal ash or coal gangue, the alkaline excitation material comprises carbide slag, lime, Portland cement or waste cement; maintaining for a period through hydration, then maintaining through carbonation so as to obtain the carbonate-based building material product. The coupling technique can effectively use the industrial solid wastes such as steel slag, mineral waste residue, furnace slag, coal ash, coal gangue, carbide slag and the like, so that emission of greenhouse gases is reduced, the greenhouse effect is relieved, furthermore, the method can be used for producing the building material products with good properties, effectively uses the waste and is environmentally friendly.