The invention relates to the technical field of friction material manufacturing, in particular to a wet-type paper-based friction material, a preparation method thereof and a friction plate. The material comprises a paper base layer and a controllable
abrasive dust layer formed on the surface of the paper base layer, the paper base layer is wet paper base body paper impregnated with first resin, and the
mass of the controllable
abrasive dust layer accounts for 3%-8% of the
mass of the paper base layer; the controllable
abrasive dust layer comprises skeleton fibers, second resin, nano filler and polyether-
ether-
ketone microspheres. The preparation method comprises the following steps: carrying out turbulent flow treatment on a paper-based
slurry, forming on a net under the action of ultrasonic
waves, dehydrating and
drying to obtain raw paper; the base paper is impregnated with first resin and cured to form a paper-based layer; mixing skeleton fibers, second resin, nano filler, polyether-
ether-
ketone microspheres and a dispersing agent to prepare 10-30wt% of
coating liquid; and
coating the
coating liquid on the surface of the paper base layer, and
drying and curing to obtain the wet-type paper-based friction material containing the paper base layer and the controllable abrasive dust layer. Therefore, according to the friction material, the friction interface can be actively repaired from passive
wear resistance, the
heat resistance and durability are improved, and the problem that in the prior art, durability attenuation is easily caused by microcrack propagation and insufficient
heat resistance of the material is accurately solved.