The invention relates to gemini alkyl amine ether sulfosuccinate salt surfactants with chemical structural formulas I, II, III and IV, and in the formulas, R1 and R2 are respectively selected from C4-C22 linear or branched saturated or unsaturated alkyls, a=1-100, b=1-100, n=1-10, and a, b and n are all integer, and M is one or more of Li<+>, Na<+>, K<+> and NH<4+>. The preparation method of the surfactants comprises performing monoesterification or diesterification on a secondary amine ether, a primary amine ether and polyamine ether with maleic anhydride, and then performing sulfonation to obtain the corresponding gemini alkyl amine ether sulfosuccinate salt, and adjusting the performance of the finally-obtained Gemini surfactants from the molecular structure, such as the amine ether alkyls, EO, PO addition number and quantity of amine ether functional group. The preparation method is simple, easy to operate and small in environment hazards.