The invention discloses a clutch temperature control method and system for a wet type DCT. The method comprises the steps that according to oil temperature of a transmission, rotating speed of an engine, a shifting fork position signal, a gear signal, surface temperature of a first clutch, surface temperature of a second clutch, friction power of the first clutch, the friction power of the secondclutch and pressure of a main oil path, actual lubricating flow flowing into a clutch assembly is calculated; according to the actual lubricating flow flowing into the clutch assembly, the rotating speed of the engine, the oil temperature of the transmission, the friction power of the first clutch and the friction power of the second clutch, the surface temperature of the first clutch and the surface temperature of the second clutch are calculated; and then according to the surface temperature of the first clutch, the surface temperature of the second clutch and the oil temperature of the transmission, whether the clutch assembly is overheated or not is judged, and overheating protection is started in a hierarchical mode. By adopting the control method and system, accurate surface temperature of the clutches can be obtained, and the surface temperature of the clutches combines with the oil temperature of the transmission to be taken as a judgment basis for carrying out clutch overheating protection.